All Things Bamf!

2009-07-09 [Neurotic Obsession]: Any of you guys good at giving advice? I could really use some right about now.

2009-07-09 [KillChasityDead]: im okay at it.
as long as its not too extremely complicated.

2009-07-09 [Neurotic Obsession]: Well, shit. It's relationship advice I need..

2009-07-09 [KillChasityDead]: ahh.
well, explain your situation and i'll give you my viewpoint.
:)

2009-07-09 [Neurotic Obsession]: Alright. So there's a guy that I loved for about 3 years. And he loved me too, we were engaged, going to be wed, laughter, smiles, yada yada. Since April, he has been cheating on me and he left me, except we still live together. He's always mad at me when I cry because I love him so damn much, the pain.. it really is immense.. Everyday for 3 months, I cried at least 2 times a day. Everyone is telling me to be strong and hang in there, he will come back to me. And lately, he has been talking to me. But then when I start to cry again (it's hard not to when you're in the arms of the one you adore and he can't stand you) he leaves and gets mad at me some more. I want to hang in there, but I don't know if I can. And all of this is just destroying me. I tell him how much I love him, and he won't listen...

2009-07-09 [DeletedFOREVER]: Haha I'll help if I can

2009-07-09 [DeletedFOREVER]: Hun I got cheated on recently also
You feel like you love him
But that pain will never leave
And it'll eat you from the inside out
You have to be strong
But he isn't worth you

2009-07-09 [DeletedFOREVER]: Do what makes you happy
But don't settle for less
There's always more out there

2009-07-09 [Neurotic Obsession]: I can't sleep, I haven't eaten in about 2 weeks. I'm always throwing up. (I sound like a girl >.> All these non-manly emotions :P) The only thing that's keeping me from breaking down all together is singing.

2009-07-09 [KillChasityDead]: Honestly, if I were you and I had a boyfriend who cheated on me I would NOT take them back no matter how much I liked them. If you take someone back after they cheat on you, 99% of the time that persons thought process about that kind of situation is going to change, and they're going to be like "Oh, well if I can get away with it once, I can get away with it again because they're always going to take me back." And then they'll just start to see you as a, I guess, a kind of rebound person that they fall back on when they don't have anyone else. As far as the crying thing goes, I know how that is. My boyfriend gives me crap all the time about how I cry over mean stuff he says. And I understand that you cant help it. Especially in that situation. But, if hes going to get mad at you crying over something that's HIS fault, that says something to me too. I think it says that he knows he hurt you, and that he doesn't want to hear you cry over it because he doesn't really feel bad about it. I'm just saying, if it were me I wouldn't put up with that. There really are plenty of other fish in the sea. Fish that don't cheat and get all pissy when you're upset at something thats their fault to begin with. D:

I hope that helped.

2009-07-09 [Neurotic Obsession]: I know there's more fish in the sea.. but the damn sea is polluted and it messed up everything. And I have tried to move on.. but then I spend the night in another one's arms.. crying over him.

2009-07-09 [DeletedFOREVER]: It'll take time
But you can make it

But I'll be back later I have to go babysit
Tootaloo till later
Stay strong

2009-07-09 [kimberly ida.]: Well, I'm not in this conversation.. but, I'll throw in some words of wisdom.(:

When someone cheats.. they're not worth it. I realize that you're in love with him.. but, he's a sleezball. Being strong is the right answer in this. But, you also have to remember that you two are no longer together, that he moved on. He may get mad because he wants you to move on like he did.
I don't know how much this will help,
but, I tried.(:

2009-07-09 [KillChasityDead]: Don't try to rush things. Take everything one step at a time. The best thing I ever did for myself when I got out of a relationship with my ex, was to stop the communication with him all together. And don't give in. I mean, sure you can start talking to him again after a few months, but you need to give yourself time to get over the situation. It helps a lot. Time really does kill the pain. So yeah, my advice would be to just stop talking to him long enough to get yourself together and analyze the situation, (this will take at least a month, if not 2 to do), then by the end of that time frame if you still feel like you absolutely have to be with that person, despite what they did to you, then casually start talking to them again. But typically if you don't give in and really go that long without talking to them,you'll realize that the situation made you a much stronger person and you'll realize you can do SO much better. 

2009-07-09 [Neurotic Obsession]: ..I don't think I'll ever be able to move on.

He swept me off my feet
Then dropped me on my ass.

2009-07-09 [KillChasityDead]: I think that everyone thinks that about someone they've been with at some point or another. But trust me. Life does go on. No matter what. It takes time but it is possible. :)

2009-07-09 [Neurotic Obsession]: ...yeah.. thanks..

2009-07-09 [WonderTweek]: Here's my advice.
A lot of people say that if he cheated on you to not take him back, i remember I used to say that if anyone cheated on me I would NEVER take them back.
but once you're in a relationship it's different isn't it?
I've been cheated on before, and it does hurt, but are you willing to be with him the rest of your life knowing that he cheated on you?
That's the first question you have to ask yourself.
Second, will you two even get back together, if there really is no chance go out and try to find someone else, I know that's difficult and it will be very hard, but it might help you mentally, and if he see's you with someone else that makes you happy he just might realize what he lost.
I'm not saying get with someone else to make him jealous or anything, but if you cry over him all the time he's just gonna want to be away from you more.
yes the sea is polluted, but there are wonderful people out there waiting for someone like you.
You deserve better than that, though you've probably heard that before make sure you understand fully what that means. as much as it's going to hurt try to enjoy being single, try to get out and met new people, you might find life isn't so bleak and depressing after all.

2009-07-09 [Neurotic Obsession]: I always said I would never let anyone treat me like this...

2009-07-09 [kimberly ida.]: and with him talking to you again.. just shows that he wants to remain friends.(:

2009-07-09 [WonderTweek]: "..I don't think I'll ever be able to move on.

He swept me off my feet
Then dropped me on my ass."

More the reason to move on.
It's very difficult to do you, and eventually you will be able to move on, even if it is hard.
Time heals, it may not heal all wounds, but it heals them up enough, like I had a girlfriend and we were together for about two years, and even though that had've been like almost three years ago now, she still has a place in my heart, and she always will.
But I've learned to move on, and so has she, though it hurts and it eats away at your every thought you can be stronger. Surround yourself with people who love and care for you. You said you would never let anyone treat you like this, so why the exception? Being near people that love you help you realize just how amazing you are and how you can be without him.
Even now you have a lot of people here for you, I'm here for you and I don't even know you.
I know you're getting a lot of advice and some of it may seem odd to you, but at least give it some thought.
You can do it :]

2009-07-09 [+ Panzer King +]: j00 can do it, usually im not too good with the advices so you guys seem like u got it

2009-07-09 [KillChasityDead]: of course you're not, Ian.



=l


LOLOLOL jkjkjkjkjk.
:D

2009-07-09 [+ Panzer King +]: lulz. yet again i fail, catastrophically

2009-07-09 [KillChasityDead]: haha.
im kidding.

2009-07-09 [+ Panzer King +]: i know i know

2009-07-09 [WonderTweek]: xD

2009-07-09 [Neurotic Obsession]: I went out for a drive today.. and I decided to go camping.. nothing gets my spirits up like being half naked in the water and then trying to roast marshmallows and failing at every attempt.

Also, forgetting that fire = skin graphs...

2009-07-09 [WonderTweek]: Ouch >.O
I saved a moth/butterfly..thing today :]

2009-07-09 [Neurotic Obsession]: Nice.. I killed one.. then got stung by a wasp.

2009-07-09 [WonderTweek]: That's what you get for killing one :P

2009-07-09 [Neurotic Obsession]: Yeah, I learned my lesson. Wasn't the first time I got stung though. I once got stung in the back of my throat by a bee. That was painful.

2009-07-09 [WonderTweek]: I bet D:

2009-07-09 [Neurotic Obsession]: *Nods and goes back into seclusion*

2009-07-09 [d o n e]: Oo;
I'm tiiiiired from doing nothing today xD;;

*dances*

2009-07-09 [Neurotic Obsession]: Lucky you.

2009-07-09 [WonderTweek]: Haha Nice Ali *joins in the dancing*

2009-07-10 [d o n e]: rofl noo not lucky.
It's pathetic. xD;;;
-clings-

2009-07-10 [MON CAUCHEMAR CHIMIQUE]: gah chimique wishes to go out and do something but theres no one able tonight

2009-07-10 [WonderTweek]: *clings more*
Go dance!!

2009-07-10 [Grave Robber]: *clings to zzyzx*

2009-07-10 [WonderTweek]: AHHH!
*clings to Tylor*
<3

2009-07-10 [Grave Robber]: Psshssh Whos this tylor person your talking about?

2009-07-10 [WonderTweek]: D:<
Screw you Ty!

2009-07-10 [Grave Robber]: Gees there you go talking about this crazy Tylor person, I told you, I am Mortos Der Soul Stealer.

2009-07-10 [WonderTweek]: XD

2009-07-10 [Grave Robber]: You know that a hot name.

2009-07-10 [d o n e]: I want a hot name too! D: D: D:

2009-07-10 [Grave Robber]: Everyone does XP

2009-07-10 [WonderTweek]: Then gets one!
They only cost 1.07 :D

2009-07-10 [d o n e]: Who do I pay then? D: D:

2009-07-10 [WonderTweek]: Uhm..
The namegiver!

2009-07-10 [d o n e]: AND WHO IS THAT?
HM??

2009-07-10 [WonderTweek]: Uhm..
He's..
awesome? xD

2009-07-10 [Grave Robber]: Is he super awesome?

2009-07-10 [WonderTweek]: Very super awesomes.
So awesome he's awesomesauce.

2009-07-10 [Grave Robber]: Nomnomnom sounds like delicious sauce

2009-07-10 [WonderTweek]: ..
No.
Awesomesauce.
get it right.

2009-07-10 [Grave Robber]: Nomnomsauce

2009-07-10 [WonderTweek]: NOOO!!!
Not NomnomSAUCE!

2009-07-10 [Grave Robber]: Fine be that way >:[

2009-07-10 [WonderTweek]: I WILL!
Cheatface.

2009-07-10 [Grave Robber]: Still nom sauce.

2009-07-10 [MON CAUCHEMAR CHIMIQUE]: o.0 everything good here?

2009-07-10 [Grave Robber]: Everything is nom.

2009-07-10 [WonderTweek]: No.
Tylor is being a jerk!
*points*

2009-07-10 [Grave Robber]: lol Tylor.

2009-07-10 [MON CAUCHEMAR CHIMIQUE]: lol well carry on then

2009-07-10 [WonderTweek]: TYLOR!
I'mma kill yeewwwww!!!
*chases*

2009-07-10 [Grave Robber]: lol love.

2009-07-10 [MON CAUCHEMAR CHIMIQUE]: haha murder this i like

2009-07-10 [WonderTweek]: *tackles*
D:<

2009-07-10 [Grave Robber]: oh nos!!!

2009-07-10 [WonderTweek]: OH YEZ! >:D

2009-07-10 [Grave Robber]: *dies*

2009-07-10 [WonderTweek]: ...
*sits on carcass*
Comfy.

2009-07-10 [Grave Robber]: *nom nom*

2009-07-10 [WonderTweek]: ...
ZOMBIE!

2009-07-10 [Grave Robber]: *does the thriller dance*

2009-07-10 [WonderTweek]: xD *joins*

2009-07-10 [Grave Robber]: Woo!

2009-07-10 [WonderTweek]: Okay..
Bed times D:

2009-07-10 [Nataliee.]: kay then i'll join, :]

2009-07-10 [Mongoose.]: anyone on?

2009-07-10 [WonderTweek]: I'm on!

2009-07-10 [Mongoose.]: whoo!! whats crackin?

2009-07-10 [+ Panzer King +]: butts. =P

2009-07-10 [Neurotic Obsession]: I took your advice everyone. I gave up on him and moved back home. This is going to be very hard for me, but I'm hoping I can do it. I deserve to smile as well as the rest of everyone out there.

2009-07-10 [+ Panzer King +]: this is true.

2009-07-10 [Neurotic Obsession]: So if I say something that makes people feel depressed.. just throw a shoe at me or something. I really want to beat this depression.

2009-07-10 [+ Panzer King +]: *throws a bible at you*

2009-07-10 [Neurotic Obsession]: Ohh, I have to say, I'm not religious in the least, but the Bible is one interesting book.

2009-07-10 [Mongoose.]: *hugs the air outa you8 cheer up things could be worse

2009-07-10 [Neurotic Obsession]: *Chokes and gasps for air* I'm trying to cheer up. I haven't cried in.. 30 minutes now. New record!

2009-07-10 [+ Panzer King +]: =P *dances to Combichrist*

2009-07-10 [WonderTweek]: Combichrist! *Grabs [Neurotic Obsession]'s hands and dances in circles* ^________^

2009-07-10 [Neurotic Obsession]: *Is grabbed* What's Combichrist?

2009-07-10 [+ Panzer King +]: Industrial

2009-07-10 [Neurotic Obsession]: ..Is that like a band or something?

2009-07-10 [WonderTweek]: Yes.
I saw them in concert not to long ago.
It was AMAZING!

2009-07-10 [Lady Starlight]: *walks in, looks around, and waves"

2009-07-10 [WonderTweek]: *Waves back* Hello my lady, how are you today?

2009-07-10 [Neurotic Obsession]: Oh. A band.. neat. I like Zemfira.

2009-07-10 [Mongoose.]: *waves* how goes it

2009-07-10 [Neurotic Obsession]: *Waves at Light* Hey Crazy.

2009-07-10 [Mongoose.]: -looks around- you calling me crazy?

2009-07-10 [Lady Starlight]: I am fine, Thank you. Yeah, I'm crazy..hehe, but noone complains lol

2009-07-10 [Neurotic Obsession]: ..Everyone is crazy these days.

2009-07-10 [Mongoose.]: well thats because crazys just sooo much fun

2009-07-10 [Neurotic Obsession]: I used to be crazy... Good times.

2009-07-10 [Mongoose.]: ^-^ i still am muahhhahha!

2009-07-10 [Lady Starlight]: but crazy is cooool. *dances in the floor*

2009-07-10 [Neurotic Obsession]: *Watches everyone*

2009-07-10 [Mongoose.]: makes great art too

2009-07-10 [Neurotic Obsession]: *is reminded of a guy that makes murals with his own feces*

2009-07-10 [Mongoose.]: ew no. like salvador dali and them dead guys

2009-07-10 [Neurotic Obsession]: *Nods* You see some weird crap when you travel the world.

2009-07-10 [Mongoose.]: lol im sure.. but really who in the eff would do that.. its just groody

2009-07-10 [Lady Starlight]: *goes to barf* hehe

2009-07-10 [Neurotic Obsession]: I know. I asked him why and he simply stated that art should be a part of him. I was like, "Yeah, a part of you.. but not literally!"

2009-07-10 [WonderTweek]: ...xD

2009-07-10 [Lady Starlight]: *runs to Zzyzx* Welcome back

2009-07-10 [WonderTweek]: Hi!
And thank you ^_^

2009-07-10 [Lady Starlight]: My puter is about to go kaplut

2009-07-10 [WonderTweek]: Aww why?
Elfpack keeps dying on me >.<

2009-07-10 [Lady Starlight]: Glad to know I'm not the only one it happens to. Although I do have myspace AND Twitter open at the same time

2009-07-10 [WonderTweek]: Haha I have myspace and project playlist open in different tabs xD

2009-07-10 [Neurotic Obsession]: Ah, so it wasn't the piece of crap computer that I'm on after all. Can't wait until I get wireless so I could use my laptop.

2009-07-10 [WonderTweek]: Yeah Elfpack has been going on and off on my all day.

2009-07-10 [Neurotic Obsession]: *nods*

2009-07-10 [WonderTweek]: Do-dee-do

2009-07-11 [Neurotic Obsession]: Boring day...

2009-07-11 [fu**(fuse)]: tell me about it. -.-;

2009-07-11 [Neurotic Obsession]: *Nods* I spent all day making wiki's and such, Everyone seems to have died today >.>

2009-07-11 [WonderTweek]: What kind of wiki's?

2009-07-11 [Neurotic Obsession]: Just my poetry, things I want to do before I die and my book/guide that I made.

2009-07-11 [WonderTweek]: That's neat, I've always found poetry really interesting, even though I don't do it myself.
And what's this book/guide thing about if I may ask?

2009-07-11 [Neurotic Obsession]: It's all about how a Neurotic looks at life and love, how they deal with the seasons. I have it on Elftown too and it made me a Featured Wikigrapher :P

2009-07-11 [Lady Starlight]: what is your name on Elftown?

2009-07-11 [Neurotic Obsession]: Same as this one

2009-07-11 [WonderTweek]: That's interesting.

2009-07-11 [Neurotic Obsession]: Not really.. *Sniffs clothes* My clothes smell like happy *huggles sweater*

2009-07-11 [Grave Robber]: Your face is interesting.

2009-07-11 [WonderTweek]: I wish my clothes smelt like happy.. Instead they just smell like clothes -.-
And Your FACE Tylor.

2009-07-11 [Neurotic Obsession]: *Is in corner sniffing sweater*

2009-07-11 [Lady Starlight]: *sneaks in and says hi*

2009-07-11 [Neurotic Obsession]: *Tackles Crazy*

2009-07-11 [WonderTweek]: *wipes tear away from not having happy smelling clothes*
Soo... Sup guys?

2009-07-11 [Neurotic Obsession]: *Gives Zzyzx some of my nice happy smelly clothes* There ya go.

2009-07-11 [Lady Starlight]: *giggles sweetly* How is everyone??? And I'm sure your clothes smell just lovely Zzyzx

2009-07-11 [WonderTweek]: YAY! *Puts on whatever he gave me and runs around in circles*
I'm good now! :D How about you???

2009-07-11 [Neurotic Obsession]: *Watches Zzyzx* By the way, my name is Raphael, people just call me Raph.

2009-07-11 [WonderTweek]: Hello Raph *keeps going*

2009-07-11 [Neurotic Obsession]: You're going to wear yourself out..

2009-07-11 [WonderTweek]: *keeps going* What're you talking about? I could do this all da..
*falls on floor and goes to sleep*

2009-07-11 [Neurotic Obsession]: *Puts blanket over him and places sign saying, "Warning, passed out BAMF" next to him*

2009-07-11 [WonderTweek]: ZzZzZzZzZzZz

2009-07-11 [Neurotic Obsession]: *Starts lighting firecrackers*

2009-07-11 [Grave Robber]: *glomps sleepy zzyzx*

2009-07-11 [Neurotic Obsession]: *Throws firecrackers around, laughing maniacally as they go off*

2009-07-11 [WonderTweek]: *Is glomped* ZzZzZz.. o_e
Why you glomp me while I sleeps?
O_O Kablammies! I like kablammies!! :D *runs around them*

2009-07-11 [Neurotic Obsession]: :D Me too! *Huggles firecracker, it goes off* ....@.@.. owie

2009-07-11 [WonderTweek]: O_O; *sprays you with hose*

2009-07-11 [Neurotic Obsession]: *Drowns*

2009-07-11 [WonderTweek]: O_O... Uhm uhm *throws pie at you* GET BETTER! D:

2009-07-11 [Neurotic Obsession]: Ohh, pie *Eats pie*

2009-07-11 [Grave Robber]: Nom pie nom.

2009-07-11 [WonderTweek]: Yay!
What is it with you ans Nom Ty?

2009-07-11 [n1234]: whats up? im bored

2009-07-11 [WonderTweek]: Nothing
Sup with you?

2009-07-12 [WonderTweek]: <<;

2009-07-12 [KillChasityDead]: blah.
so i guess we will have to wait until cloud natiion gets back to vote on the picture thing.
OMG
and today i should have the banner contest up because its the 12th!
;lkdha;lshsa;klgh

2009-07-12 [WonderTweek]: Haha XP

2009-07-12 [KillChasityDead]: lol.
D:D:D:D:D:

2009-07-12 [WonderTweek]: It's okay, you can always push the date if needed. :p From what I understand I don't think anyone is necessarily in a hurry to participate.

2009-07-12 [Neurotic Obsession]: I want to make a banner.. but I suck at graphics and such -.-

2009-07-12 [DeletedFOREVER]: i would.. i just dont have acomputer at hand.. im on a ipod..

2009-07-12 [Neurotic Obsession]: How do you do that on an ipod? (Like it matters.. I lost mine in Italy -.-)

2009-07-12 [DeletedFOREVER]: what internet or make something?
cuaseinternet wifi
make stuff you dont, thats why i couldnt participate..

2009-07-12 [Neurotic Obsession]: Ahh, I meant the internet. I didn't know an ipod could do that.

2009-07-12 [DeletedFOREVER]: well haha i gots the ipod touch.

2009-07-12 [DeletedFOREVER]: one of the few cool things i gotss =]]

2009-07-12 [Neurotic Obsession]: That is so neat! I should get one.. but first I'd need a job.. well.. First I'd have to get out of the house.. well.. get off the comp would be --- eff it. I'll just touch my monitor and pretend I have a fancy gizmo as well.

2009-07-12 [DeletedFOREVER]: haha well see that works =]
haha
dude could you explain something to me?

2009-07-12 [Neurotic Obsession]: I can certainly try.

2009-07-12 [DeletedFOREVER]: why does it seemlike 90% of guys are sick?

2009-07-12 [Neurotic Obsession]: Sick in the head? Or physically?

2009-07-12 [DeletedFOREVER]: in the head. hey if i die myipod's fucking up trmedously but ill get ackwhen i can
i just didnt want to leave you hanging

2009-07-12 [Neurotic Obsession]: Well, I have no idea. But I would love to find out why most so-called men are immature and just plain a-holes. And then again, most ladies I come across are the same -.-.. let's study our own sexes and report back to each other :P

2009-07-12 [Grave Robber]: *Waves* Hi! ^__^

2009-07-12 [Neurotic Obsession]: *waves* Hi.

2009-07-12 [Grave Robber]: How is everyone?

2009-07-12 [Neurotic Obsession]: Not bad, I think I just pulled my armpit Oo
How are you?

2009-07-12 [WonderTweek]: Barbie, 90% of men are sick because you keep coming across the bad ones.
I swear there are decent guys out there, sadly though a lot of the immature a-holes as Neurotic calls them ruin the name for a lot of guys.
And yes there are some ladies that ruin the name for you girls as well, like the super slutty ones..
I'm not going to keep going on but I bet you get my point.
Barbie if there are any guys that are being jerkfaces to you, let me know and I'll go kick some butt okay? :P

2009-07-12 [Neurotic Obsession]: ..And I'll slash their tires =)

2009-07-12 [Grave Robber]: Thats not good, Im ok, trying not to die of heat. :[

2009-07-12 [WonderTweek]: And I'll cut off their electricity!
Wait.. Is that going to far? O_0

2009-07-12 [Neurotic Obsession]: And then I'll harvest their organs!
No.. but I might be >.>

2009-07-12 [WonderTweek]: And I'll make pie out of those organs and sell them on the black market!
Or eat them myself..
Either one.

2009-07-12 [Neurotic Obsession]: mmmm.. That sounds good. I'll buy one! =)